Hmmm

[arabwel]

People seem to think i am immoral and evil forr fancying Paul and intendingg to do something about it. bleh at them. if he fancies a shag, it is not my problem, jsut my pleasure. If ti happens. *crosses fingers and hopes really hard*

In other news, sister has agreed to borrow me the money for plane tickets and probably for the stay at the B&B and..s o ona nd so on, reelaly. I will be able to pay her back, after all. THis ismuchly of the awesom anf i am making my tentative date of leaving here Dec. 28th - so I will be able to start a brand new year in Ireland.

oh, and Looksy at this: http://nano.eyeheartzombies.com/ was vaguely amused to find self there. Looking forward to seeing their faces when this bloody thing makes it to bestseller.. means editing WILL kill m e because I have to edit everyone to unrecognizability, but...

other thant hat, hmm, can't come up with anything.

Comments

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Why...???? I do not think you are evil..and besides....what is wrong with liking Paul....he does look good....he seems nice....
Thanks for the link....^-^

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

Well, soime people think that because paul is married, i am evil and immoral for having any designs on him.

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

*lol* I did not even know he is married.....since when...??? And is he happily married.....I mean....*lol*....look at Britney spears....???!!!!

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

He's happily married as since several years ago. And apparently from allt he evidence, his wife does nto mind the fact taht he still sleeps around. Not hatt I know for sure, but she hasnöt kicked his sorry ass out yet... *shrugs*

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

well if he erm does not mind to erm sleep around (That does mean he betrays her right?) than he can not be this happy.....can he....???
But they don't have kids have they?

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

As fasr as I am concerned, if she knows and approves, it is not betraying her. He is not going about it bhehind her back. ANd no, they do not have kids.

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Well as far as I see that it does not matter if she knows if he betrays her or not....it shows that he seems to give not one thing if he is married...I mean....this can not going good....not for long....I would feel weird if I would know that my husband is sleeping around with whom ever....

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

A lot of people have open magrriages. It is a pretty interesting thing - usually called polyamory. there's stuff about it on wikipedia and so on. Basically, it is ala bout being open for more than one relationship at the same time, with everyone involved knowing hat is going on.

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Ummmm that is illegel in germany....and in other europeen countries as well....

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Open marriages....bless me.....sorry I am openminded usually....but there are some things I do not think that they are good...

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

Nope, it is not illegal at all. theya re only legally married to one person - but they still have relationships with others.

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Well let's see I marry someone.....and I betray him he can get the law and the judges against me...and he could let me pay money....and via versus....so betraying someone is against the law....

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

Not really, it is just grounds for divorce. ther eis a difference there.

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Mhhh ummmm.....guess we have a different point of view here....*g*....
The marriage...at least in germany has his own section in the civil rights book..just like the basic rights ....
they marry at the town hall and sign a marriage contract....and promise each other to stay true....infront of the law....

[arabwel.livejournal.com]

it is still not a criminal offence as far as i am aware - I have never heard of anyone in Germany or elsewher ein Europe being sentenced to anything for adultery.

[moxi01.livejournal.com]

Mhhh guess you are right....maybe I am to....whatever....
Sometimes I am very weird...